Love does exist in its purest form and I consider myself an example of …, says Ashita Dhawan

Actress Ashita Dhawan, who has been a part of shows like Sapna Babul Ka Bidaai, Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai, Imlie, Krishna Mohini, and Mera Balam Thanedaar, is presently seen in Prem Leela. In an exclusive interview with Desimartini, she touches upon her take on love and relationships in the age of social media.

When asked about love in the times of social media, Ashita said, “Social media is not changing the meaning of love in relationships—people are changing its meaning and then putting it out there on social media. Everyone’s experience is different, and they share their stories based on their own perspective. Love is personal, and how people express it depends on their situation.

Social media is just a platform, a medium where we can express everything—our happiness, sadness, good moments, and bad ones. And honestly, that’s what influencing is all about. Social media has become both a boon and a bane. Everyone uses it in their own way, and it’s completely their choice what they want to show to the world. They are in full control of it”.

In the same breath, she added, “I’ve seen some relationships where, on the surface, everything looks perfect, but deep down, there’s nothing real. I’ve also noticed that sometimes people celebrate moments just to get good pictures rather than actually enjoying them.

At the end of the day, everyone has their own preferences and ways of living. If you have the money, you can flaunt it, enjoy it, and get great pictures—it’s completely your choice. And love? Well, that too is different for everyone. So, people will do whatever makes them happy, and that’s okay!”

When asked her about the advice she would want to give the younger generation, Ashita said, “All I want to tell the young generation is that love is all about acceptance—accepting imperfections. If you can truly love and embrace someone’s imperfections, then that is real love. But before loving someone else, learn to love yourself first! Love does exist in its purest form.

She continued, “I consider myself an example of this, as I married someone I love and continue to cherish that relationship today. Of course, there are ups and downs, arguments, and disagreements, but the bottom line is that the love remains intact. It’s important to actively maintain that love because no one else will add the necessary ‘spices’ to your relationship.

You have to take charge, put in the effort, and make it work. If you feel love, only then can you give love. In our social media-driven world, it’s important to take responsibility for your own love.”

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